5 Essential Messages for Extraordinary Love
by Paul and Patricia Richards Authors of Wild Attraction the Energetic Facts of Life
Men and Women Speak radically different languages and it is important that we understand the other genders language. There are 2 Essential Gender Messages “Good Job” for Men and “You are precious for yourself alone” for Women. These are vital to creating powerful intimacy between partners. Each person must receive at least 5 positive messages everyday. The essential 5 messages are…
The First Message
I see you. Let your partner know that you really are seeing them and paying attention to their specialness, their deeper feeling or their hopes and fears.
The Second Message
I regret your pain and suffering. Be present and empathize with their misfortunes and challenges.
The Third Message
You are loved and part of my pack. For example; if we were in a life boat in stormy seas and you fell overboard, I would go back for you. It is a message of I am here for you and I have your back .
The Fourth Message
I appreciate your contributions and your achievements. We all need to be blessed. Give blessings freely when you perceive something to be wonderful or amazing in your partner.
The Fifth Message
You are safe with me and from me. I will watch over you and create a safe place for you.